Giving Comfort to those in Sadness
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| Don't tell people to just be happy. Instead, tell them you will sit beside them so they won't be alone in their sadness. It affirms their right to feel-and is more comforting. |
How Religion Hurts Those who Love
Main Stream Churches can use tactics that harm just as cults do I found in my spiritual journey that it was easy for my spirituality to be “above ground” as it were. I followed the rules, I adhered to the doctrines, I submitted to authority. I believed that this was what I needed to do to be faithful. But in my reading of the Gospels, Jesus had issues with this kind of “faithfulness” even to the point to calling those who promoted it as “whitewashed coffins with dead bones in them.” (not a direct quote). When I look back, I see how this faithfulness worked in the beginning. I imagined myself becoming holy, acceptable to God, on my way to perfection. Then when life changed and things got hard with my soul filled with darkness instead of light, my joy evaportated. I sought help from the leaders who instructed me in my faith, but they continued giving me the same lines, that if I had more faith, I wouldn't be struggling. They told me I lacked generosity and was unwilling to carry my c...
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