A Letter of Encouragement

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Ever feel in need of a word or two of encouragement? I know I have.

Recently I came across a letter I'd gotten back in 2012. I thought I'd share it:

"Hi there. I love you. You are so brave and courageous, taking life by the horns and going with the flow. Yes, I know it is hard. So much unknown. So much poverty and not having. You have gone forward regardless. You have not settled. You have remained true to your commitment to truth by not compromising yourself. Not an easy job."

"And so, I want to encourage you to continue moving forward. You do not know what lies ahead. But you do not fear it either. You go forward with prayer and with hope. You trust God to take care. And when God seems far away, you continue on in the dark, knowing God will act in time. Maybe not your time, but in time."

"So, know I believe in you, with your quirkiness and your uniqueness. You don't want to be in Grad school right now. You'd like to be writing and earning good money. But that hasn't happened. And so you are just scraping by again. But things will change. You just have to keep up the good work, to carry on, to believe when the going gets tough. Not that that in itself will change things. But things will change, because you are something else. You know it more than anyone else."

"Thank you for blessing my life. I miss you."

"Amy"

Yes. I wrote that letter to myself. Why? I needed encouragement and so I gave it to myself.

I've learned through the years to seek my comfort and encouragement and support from within. If I seek it only outside of myself, I can find myself lacking.

Write a letter of encouragement to yourself. Tell you how you really feel, your hopes and dreams, and what you need to hear. Save the letter. 

You will be glad you did. 



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